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August 13, 2008
Gravestone
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I used to go to the cemetery every Sunday to visit my dad. When the weather was good I would sit on the grass by his gravestone, if not I would park in the road about 30 feet away and sit in the drivers seat with the door open. Sometimes I would sit on a little hill with my back to the stone in order to watch the sunset. His stone was in a good spot, under the canopy of two trees, a little bit removed from most of the other sites. I usually went in the late afternoon, but sometimes later if I had stuff to do.
One Sunday it was later than usual and the Sun was beginning to set. I parked and heard some giggling and the sound of glass bottles coming from near my dad's stone. The cemetery only recently cleared the vines to open up this section and my dad was one of the first ones in. As such, different people liked to linger near his stone, to sit with their backs against one of the trees or lie back on the little hill.
This night there were three teenage boys drinking and laughing and staggering about trying to be funny for each other. As I got nearer I saw one of them kick one of the older gravestones over and pick it up and throw it. That made me mad and I started walking with more determination.
Then I saw one kick my dad's stone. I was speechless for a second, but then stopped and shouted, "Hey, stop that!" or something of that nature.
One of the boys seemed to twitch, like he was going to bolt, but the one kicking my dad's stone just laughed and kicked it a second time - harder than necessary to make his point. Then the third boy threw one of the bottles against the stone, smashing the bottle.
This made me very angry and I looked down to see if there was something to throw at them. There was an old crumbling tomb to my right and I walked over and picked up a tennis-ball sized lump of stone and threw it at the boys.
I had never been a top athlete, but I could throw and catch as well as any average guy. I could see them all look up when I grunted as I threw it, but they must have lost sight of the stone against the darkening skies.
I think we were all surprised when the rock I had thrown hit one of the kids square in the center of his face. Of course I was aiming for his head, but I never thought I could actually hit him.
I just stood and felt like I must have seemed like a near-god to them, silhouetted against the dusk, unarmed yet smiting them from afar.
The twitchy boy paused a second or two and then ran off. The kicking boy knelt to examine his friend but glanced up at me.
I was scared to death of what I had just done and couldn't speak for a few seconds. Finally I collected myself and started walking toward them. I tried to speak, but my throat was so dry all that came out was a rough growl. When I was close enough to see his face, the kid stared at me, waiting for me to take another step. I took another step and he ran.
The night was very quiet other than my pulse surging in my ears and I listened to his footsteps and I could hear that he stopped abot 100 feet away. I heard a voice shout-whisper what sounded like "Andy!". The two boys must have foud each other.
The bushes on the side of the cemetery rustled, as though they were taking a shortcut to the street.
I got to my dad's stone and knelt to look at the kid with the smashed face. He wasn't dead, which I had feared. His breathing was heavy, but unobstructed.
I picked up the broken glass near my dad's grave and tossed it on the ground where the kid lay. Part of me hoped he would wake up and roll over on it.
In my head I apologized to my father as I returned to my car. Once I was a few blocks away I called the police to say there were a bunch of drunken teenagers defacing gravestones.
If they found the kid, then it was his lucky day. If not, I didn't feel responsible.
I don't visit my dad anymore.
Posted by mslaybau at August 13, 2008 05:41 PM
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Hey Matt- it's Mike Chiaramonte from ITP. I couldn't find your email because I've archived my old email and it's on an old hard drive (isn't that always the way) so I came to your site and didn't find the email. What I did find here is this amazing entry. This is so moving, and really powerful. It's written like something Stephen King might have imagined but it's yours and it's true.
I hope you are doing well. It's been too long since we've talked. Drop me a line if you have some time. I wanted to catch up with you and also wondered if you have the email of a mutual friend of ours that you'd be willing to give me or at least barter for :-)
Posted by: xelius
at August 25, 2008 01:11 PM
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